You cannot allow your woman too much. We are talking about insults, words or actions that can belittle your male dignity. No need to think that this may stop at one point. This must be suppressed immediately, in the root. But at the same time you need to behave with dignity, as befits a real man. A woman should respect you. Remember that she will not listen to the man to whom she has no respect. However, you also need to respect your woman. Which means not to insult her and not offend her.