Initiative
Try to take the initiative as often as possible. The fact is that in some pairs almost all decisions are made by a woman. What exactly to buy you from clothes, where will you go on vacation, how you will spend the weekend and so on. Of course, this form of relations is not the worst and many live like that. However, if you continue to be silent without expressing your opinion and without offering ideas, there is a risk that in the end you will be considered to make any decisions. Therefore, try to offer something more often regarding joint rest, clothes and the rest. Then your girlfriend will not make one decision, and will listen to your opinion.